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Answers to the questions our team is asked most often.

Orders & Shipping

Orders are typically processed within 1–2 business days (Monday to Friday, excluding U.S. public holidays). Orders placed after our daily cutoff, or on weekends and holidays, are processed the next business day.

We currently ship within the United States, including the contiguous 48 states. Standard Shipping usually arrives 10–15 business days after processing, and Expedited Shipping 5–10 business days where available. Alaska, Hawaii and P.O. Boxes may take longer or have limited service options. We do not currently offer international shipping.

Shipping is free on orders over $59. Below that threshold, exact rates and available methods are shown at checkout.

Once your order ships you will receive a confirmation email with a tracking number. Tracking can take up to 24 hours to update on the carrier’s website. You can also look it up any time on our order tracking page.

Please contact us within 14 days of the expected delivery date. We will open an investigation with the carrier and work to resolve it, including replacement or refund where appropriate.

Contact us right away through our Contact page with your order number and the corrected address. Orders are processed within 1–2 business days, so we can often update the address if your order has not yet been picked or handed to the carrier. Once a package is in transit we cannot redirect it, and address changes are not possible after tracking shows movement. If your order has already shipped, contact us anyway and we will help you look at the options the carrier offers for that shipment.

If your order has not shipped yet, contact us as soon as possible and we will check whether an upgrade to Expedited Shipping (5–10 business days after processing) is still possible. An upgrade usually means an additional charge, which we would confirm with you before changing anything. Once the order leaves our warehouse the shipping method cannot be changed, and expedited service cannot be applied retroactively. If speed matters, selecting Expedited at checkout is the most reliable route, since standard delivery takes 10–15 business days after processing.

We process orders Monday through Friday, excluding U.S. public holidays. An order placed on a weekend or holiday is processed on the next business day, so a Friday evening order usually starts moving on Monday. Processing takes 1–2 business days, and delivery time begins after that: standard shipping runs 10–15 business days and expedited 5–10. Carrier pickup and transit can also pause on federal holidays, and networks tend to run slower during peak periods such as late November and December. Your tracking updates remain the best guide to where a package actually is.

If you place two orders close together by mistake, contact us right away with both order numbers and we will do our best to combine them into a single shipment before they enter processing. Combining is not guaranteed, because orders can be picked quickly during busy periods. If we are able to combine them, any duplicate shipping charge is refunded to your original payment method. Once both orders have shipped they travel separately, each with its own tracking number, and we cannot merge packages that are already with the carrier.

Orders placed before our daily cutoff are queued for processing the same business day, and anything after it moves to the next business day. Because processing itself takes 1–2 business days, the cutoff affects when your order enters the queue rather than guaranteeing same-day dispatch. The exact cutoff shifts with daily order volume, so we do not publish a fixed time. Your order status changes to processing and then to shipped, and a confirmation email with tracking follows as soon as the carrier scans the package.

We send a shipping confirmation as soon as your order leaves our warehouse, normally within 1–2 business days of ordering. That email carries your tracking number and a link to the carrier. Tracking can take up to 24 hours to record its first scan, so a brand-new number may look empty at first. If an order ships in more than one parcel, you may receive more than one confirmation. If two business days have passed with no email, check your spam folder and then contact us with your order number.

Carrier scans sometimes go quiet while a package moves between sorting hubs, so a gap of a few days is not unusual on its own. Check the tracking page again, then contact us with your order number if nothing has changed for several business days. We will open a trace with the carrier and keep you posted on what they find. If the carrier confirms the parcel is lost, we will arrange a replacement or a refund. Please report a package that never arrives within 14 days of the expected delivery date, while the carrier can still investigate.

Occasionally an item sells out while an order is being packed, and if that happens we email you with the choice of waiting, swapping it for something similar, or cancelling that item for a refund. Pre-order items are labeled on the product page along with the expected ship window shown there, and nothing is charged as a shipped item until it is actually on its way. If you have a deadline, contact us before ordering and we will confirm what timing looks realistic for that specific product.

Discretion & Packaging

Every order ships in plain, unmarked packaging with no product names, images or identifying descriptions on the outside. The return label uses neutral shipping information so your privacy is protected.

Billing is discreet. Your statement shows a neutral trading name rather than any product description. See our Privacy Policy for details.

No. We do not sell your personal information. Our Privacy Policy explains exactly what we collect and why.

No. The shipping label uses neutral sender and return information, and the outside of the parcel never displays product names, brand names, images or descriptions. Our outer packaging is plain and unmarked, so a courier, a neighbor or anyone else handling the box sees a standard package with a shipping label on it. The label itself does not state what is inside, and the merchant name connected to the shipment stays neutral. If a parcel ever reaches you with visible product information on the outside, contact us and we will look into how it was packed.

We pack every order in a plain, unmarked box or mailer and add padding so the contents do not slide around or rattle in transit. Boxes come in standard sizes and are not matched to particular products, so size and weight on their own do not identify your order. Items are also wrapped inside the parcel, which means the product is not visible the moment the box is opened. If something arrives making an obvious noise, or the packaging looks like it was opened along the way, tell us within 14 days.

We keep paperwork to a minimum. Your order confirmation, receipt and tracking details arrive by email, so the parcel itself does not need to carry a document that spells out what you bought or what you paid. If you want a printed invoice for your records, contact us and we will email a copy you can print at home. Shipping paperwork is limited to what the carrier needs to deliver the box correctly. If you open a parcel and find documentation that identifies the contents, let us know and we will look into it.

Transactional messages, such as your order confirmation and shipping notification, go to the email address you give at checkout and include order details because you need them. Marketing email is separate, and every message includes an unsubscribe link. We do not send text messages unless you have specifically opted in. If privacy matters to you, use an email address that only you can open, and review the marketing preferences on your account at any time. Our Privacy Policy explains what we collect and why.

No. A tracking page shows the shipping service, the destination city and the delivery status, not the contents of the parcel. Your tracking number is tied to a shipment, and the carrier’s public tracking view does not list item names, prices or the type of products inside. The tracking link we email you is meant for you, so avoid forwarding it if you would rather not share your delivery address and status with someone else. If you have concerns about who receives your delivery updates, contact us and we will help you manage those notifications.

Yes. Discretion does not depend on the shipping speed you choose: standard and expedited orders both ship in plain, unmarked packaging, with no product names, brand names, images or identifying descriptions on the outside. The practical differences between the two methods are cost and how quickly the carrier delivers the box. Billing follows the same principle, with a neutral merchant name and no product description on your statement. If you want the fastest option and the most discreet presentation at the same time, Expedited Shipping gives you both.

Liquids such as lubricants travel in their original sealed packaging, with a protective layer so that a leak stays contained instead of soaking the rest of your order. Battery-powered and rechargeable items are padded so they cannot shift or switch on during transit, and everything sits inside the plain outer box with filler to limit movement. If a bottle arrives leaking, or an item is damaged on the way, keep the packaging and contact us within 14 days of delivery with your order number and photos so we can arrange a replacement or refund.

That should not happen, so please tell us right away. Send a photo of the outside of the parcel along with your order number through our Contact page. We will investigate how the order was packed and shipped, and follow up with you about what went wrong. We will also flag your account so future orders are packed with extra care. Reporting it helps us fix the problem for everyone, and it does not affect your right to return eligible unopened items within 30 days of delivery.

Returns & Refunds

You may return eligible products within 30 days of delivery if they are unopened, unused, sealed and in their original packaging. Approved returns are refunded to your original payment method or issued as store credit. Original shipping charges are non-refundable unless the return results from our error.

For health, safety and hygiene reasons, intimate products that have been opened, used, or whose hygiene seal has been broken cannot be returned and are final sale. This does not affect your rights for defective items.

Please contact us within 14 days of delivery with your order number and clear photos. We will arrange a replacement or refund, and where a return is needed we will cover the reasonable return cost. Please do not discard the item until the claim is resolved.

Opened lubricants, sprays and other consumable products; products marked final sale or clearance (unless defective); and items returned without a Return Merchandise Authorization (RMA).

Contact us through our Contact page or by phone with your order number and the reason for the return. If approved, we will issue an RMA number and the return address. Returns shipped without an RMA may be refused. Unless the return is due to our error, you are responsible for return shipping — we recommend a trackable service.

For a change-of-mind return, you cover the cost of shipping the item back, and we recommend a trackable service so the parcel can be traced. If the return is the result of our error, for example a damaged, defective or incorrect item, we cover the reasonable return cost and tell you exactly how to send it back. Original shipping charges are not refunded unless the return is our mistake. You are not required to use a particular carrier, but please do not ship anything back before you have a Return Merchandise Authorization (RMA) number.

Once your return arrives and passes inspection, we issue the refund to your original payment method and email you to confirm it. Our own processing is usually quick, but the time it takes to appear on your statement depends on your bank or card issuer, which can add several business days after we release the funds. If you paid with a gift card, the balance returns to that card instead. If you still do not see the credit after your bank’s normal posting window, contact us with your order number and we will send the refund reference.

We do not run a separate exchange program, but you can return an eligible unopened, unused item within 30 days of delivery for a refund and place a new order for the item you want. That is often the fastest route, because the replacement is reserved for you the moment the new order is placed. If the problem is a damaged, defective or incorrect item, contact us within 14 days of delivery and we will arrange a replacement directly instead. If you would rather take an approved refund as store credit, just say so when you start the return.

Yes, eligible items can be returned the same way. Gift purchases are treated like any other order, provided the item is unopened, unused and sealed within our 30-day window. If the purchase was paid with a gift card, the refund goes back onto that gift card rather than to a bank account, and the balance stays available for a future order. If you received an item as a gift and do not have the order number, contact us with the sender’s name and the delivery address and we will do our best to locate the order.

Returns do not have to cover a whole order, and you can send back individual items as long as each one is unopened, unused, sealed and inside the 30-day window. Bundles and kits work differently: when a set is sold as a single unit with one hygiene seal, it needs to come back complete, because a partial return cannot be verified once the seal is broken. Check the product page or ask us before opening a set and we will confirm what can be returned. Refunds are based on the price you actually paid for the item.

For an eligible return, the item must be unopened, unused and sealed in its original packaging, including any hygiene seal, box or pouch. The packaging does not have to be flawless, but it does need to be intact enough for us to confirm the item was never opened or used. Please include everything that came with it, such as cables, manuals or accessories. Items that arrive opened, used or missing components cannot be accepted as a standard return, so if you are unsure whether yours still qualifies, send us a photo before shipping anything back.

Please use a trackable shipping service and keep your receipt, because the parcel is your responsibility until it reaches us. If tracking shows your return was delivered to us and you have not heard anything, contact us with the tracking number and we will chase it down. If the carrier confirms the parcel was lost in transit, our team will review the case with you and work out a fair resolution. This is one reason we ask you to wait for a Return Merchandise Authorization (RMA) number, so your return is expected and can be matched to your order.

When a return is approved, you are refunded the price you paid for the returned item. Original shipping charges are not refunded unless the return is the result of our error, such as a damaged, defective or incorrect item. Sales tax charged on the returned item is refunded along with the item price, in line with the rules for your state. If your order qualified for free shipping, there was no shipping charge to refund in the first place. Return postage you arrange yourself is not reimbursed for change-of-mind returns.

Products & Materials

We only stock body-safe materials, and the material is stated on every product page. Our collection includes medical-grade silicone, borosilicate glass, ABS and body-safe blends — all phthalate-free.

Most silicone and glass items can be washed with warm water and a mild, unscented soap, or a dedicated toy cleaner. Check the individual product page for material-specific care instructions, and never use silicone-based lubricant with silicone toys.

Yes — gift cards are delivered by email and can be redeemed against any product in the store.

No. We only stock body-safe materials: medical-grade silicone, borosilicate glass, ABS and body-safe blends, and everything we carry is phthalate-free. That means you will not find jelly, TPE or TPR items in our catalog, since those materials are porous and difficult to clean thoroughly. The material is listed on every product page, so you can always confirm what you are buying before checkout. If a product page ever seems unclear about material, contact us with the item name and we will confirm the details for that specific product.

Think about how you want the product to feel and where you will keep it.

  • Silicone is soft and flexible, warms to body temperature and is a common choice for a first purchase.
  • Borosilicate glass is firm and smooth, easy to clean, and holds temperature longer.
  • ABS is lightweight and rigid, and is often used for the handles and housings of rechargeable items.

Every material we stock is body-safe and phthalate-free. Product pages state the material and key measurements, so compare those before deciding, and contact us if you would like a recommendation.

It depends on the material. Water-based lubricant is the most versatile match and works with silicone, glass, ABS and body-safe blends. Silicone-based lubricant should not be used with silicone products, because it can degrade the surface over time; the finish can become tacky or damaged, so keep those two separate. Check the individual product page for material-specific care notes. If you are unsure which lubricant suits a particular item, contact us with the product name and we will tell you what the manufacturer recommends for it.

A vibrator contains a motor that provides vibration, usually powered by a rechargeable battery or standard batteries. A dildo has no motor: it is a non-vibrating shape, often with a suction base or a harness-compatible base. Many shoppers own one of each, since they serve different purposes, and some products combine both features. Both are available in body-safe silicone and borosilicate glass across our range. If you are comparing two specific items and want to know how they differ in size, firmness or power source, contact us and we will walk you through the details.

Every product page includes an attribute table listing the specifications we have on file, such as material, dimensions, weight and power source. Those figures come from the manufacturer’s data, and we only publish what we can verify. If a measurement you need is missing from a page, contact us with the product name and we will check with our supplier and get back to you. When you are choosing between two similar items, comparing the attribute tables side by side is the quickest way to see which one matches what you have in mind.

Water resistance varies by product, so the reliable answer lives on the product page rather than in a general statement. Look for the water resistance detail in the attribute table, and treat any item that does not mention it as one to keep away from water. Silicone and glass items are generally the easiest to wash, while rechargeable items with charging ports or buttons need more care around water. If you cannot find the information you need, contact us with the product name and we will confirm the details before you buy.

It depends on the item. Some products are rechargeable and ship with a charging cable, while others run on standard batteries that may or may not be included. The product page attributes list the power source for each item, so check there before ordering, and contact us if the details are missing and we will confirm them. If you are buying a battery-powered product and want it ready to use on arrival, add the batteries you need to the same order. Charging cables are product-specific, so use the one supplied with your item.

Clean and dry your product first, then store it somewhere cool and out of direct sunlight. Silicone items should be kept apart from other silicone items, because surfaces in prolonged contact can react and become sticky; a cloth pouch or the original box solves that. Glass is durable but can chip if it knocks against hard objects, so give it its own space. Avoid leaving anything in a hot car or a damp bathroom cabinet for long stretches, and keep products away from sharp objects. A dedicated storage bag or case keeps everything organized and dust-free.

Yes. Our catalog includes straightforward, easy-to-use items that suit a first purchase, along with options designed for two people. If you are new to this, start with something simple and mid-sized rather than the largest or most feature-heavy option, and check the measurements on the product page before ordering. You can browse by category on our shop page, and if you tell us your budget and what you have in mind, our team is glad to suggest a short list of good starting points.

Often yes, but we cannot promise a specific restock date, because it depends on our supplier. Popular items are usually replenished, while some are discontinued or replaced by a newer version. If an item you want is out of stock, contact us with the product name and we will tell you whether more is expected and suggest a similar alternative in the meantime. Because restocked items can sell out quickly, checking the product page periodically is more reliable than waiting for an announcement.

Intimate products are not usually accepted in curbside recycling, and items containing batteries or electronics should never go into the regular trash. Remove and recycle batteries wherever your area accepts them, and check your local household hazardous waste rules for rechargeable items. Silicone and glass are not standard recyclable materials in most programs, so when in doubt, dispose of the item in general waste once the battery has been taken out separately. If you are unsure about local rules, your city or county waste department is the best source of guidance.

Many products can be shared, and cleaning between users is the key step. Wash the item thoroughly with warm water and a mild, unscented soap or a dedicated toy cleaner, then dry it completely before it is used again. If you want an extra layer of hygiene, a fresh condom on the item is a common approach. Glass and non-porous silicone are the easiest materials to clean thoroughly. Check the individual product page for material-specific care instructions, and never use silicone-based lubricant with silicone products.

Payment & Security

Yes. Checkout is encrypted and protected with 3-D Secure verification. We never store full card details on our servers.

All major cards are accepted, along with instalment options where available. The exact methods available to you are shown at checkout.

Contact us as soon as possible. If your order has not yet shipped we will do our best to amend or cancel it. Once a package is in transit we are unable to redirect it.

Eligibility for HSA and FSA funds depends on your plan and how an item is classified, and we are not able to determine that for you. Our products are intimate wellness items rather than medical devices, so many plans will not cover them, but your plan administrator is the only one who can give you a definitive answer. You are welcome to try your card at checkout; if the payment is declined, simply use another method and raise any questions with your plan administrator. We can email an order receipt, but we cannot supply medical documentation or insurance forms.

Gift cards are delivered by email as a code. Enter that code in the gift card field at checkout and the value is applied to your order total before payment. If the balance does not cover everything, pay the remainder with another accepted method. Any unused balance stays on the card for a future order, so one card can be used across more than one purchase. Gift cards cannot be exchanged for cash. If you are unsure what is left on your card, or the code will not apply, contact us with the code and we will check it.

Sales tax is calculated at checkout based on your shipping address and is applied where we are required to collect it. Because we ship only within the United States, customs duties and import fees do not apply to our orders; those charges belong to international shipping, which we do not currently offer. The total shown at checkout, including any tax, is the amount you pay, with nothing added later. Your order confirmation email lists the tax charged separately whenever tax applies to your order.

Check the card number, expiration date and security code first, and confirm that the billing address you entered matches what your bank has on file, since a mismatch is the most common cause of a decline. Some banks flag charges from merchants they do not recognize, so a quick call to your bank often clears it. Then try the order again, or use a different payment method at checkout. We never see your full card details and cannot approve a payment from our side, but if it keeps failing, contact us and we will help you work through it.

Banks sometimes pause a charge from a merchant whose billing name they do not recognize, and because our billing descriptor is intentionally neutral, that can happen with us. The charge is legitimate if you placed the order, and it appears under a neutral merchant name rather than a product description. Call the number on the back of your card and confirm the transaction, or respond to any verification message your bank sends. If your order was declined or held, contact us with your order number and we will check its status with you.

Account & Rewards

Go to the account login page and select the Lost your password? link, then enter the email address you used when you registered. We will send a reset link to that address: open it and choose a new password. If the email does not arrive within a few minutes, check your spam or promotions folder, and make sure you are using the same address you ordered with. Reset links expire for security, so request a fresh one if yours is out of date. Still locked out? Contact us with your order number and we will verify your account and help you back in.

Every marketing email we send includes an unsubscribe link at the bottom; select it and you will be removed from that list. If you would rather we handle it for you, contact us and we will update your preferences. Keep in mind that transactional messages, such as your order confirmation, shipping notification and refund updates, are not marketing and will still be sent while an order is active. We only send text messages if you have opted in, and you can reply STOP to any message to opt out.

Contact us through our Contact page and ask us to close your account. We will verify your identity, then delete or de-identify the personal information we no longer need. Some records must be retained for tax, accounting and legal reasons, and a limited amount of order history may be kept for returns and fraud prevention. We will confirm by email once your request has been completed. Our Privacy Policy explains your rights in more detail, including the rights of California residents.

We do not currently run a student, military or teacher discount program. When we do offer promotions, we announce them by email to subscribers and mark them clearly on the site, so joining our list is the simplest way to hear about them early. Gift cards are another option if you are buying for someone else and would rather let them choose; they are delivered by email as a code you enter at checkout. If you have seen a specific promotion and want to know whether it is current, contact us with the details.

Shop Safely and Confidently

Plain Unmarked Packaging

No brand names or product descriptions on the outside.

Free Discreet Shipping $59+

Tracked delivery, billed and labelled discreetly.

100% Secure Checkout

Encrypted payment with 3-D Secure verification.

Discreet Billing

Your statement shows a neutral trading name only.

Real Human Support

Questions answered by our team, not a script.

Rewards & Points

Earn points on every order and redeem for credit.

Still need a hand?

If your question is not answered above, our team will get back to you within 1–2 business days.
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